Christian Intimacy Coaching

Fully Well offers intimacy coaching from a Christ-centered perspective. This means that you can trust that while you’re working specifically on the actual sexual relationship, you’ll also be on a journey toward that oneness connection we’re promised in Scripture.

Closer Friendship

Deeper Intimacy

Genuine Oneness

What is Christian Intimacy Coaching?

Christian intimacy coaching is my revolutionary and flexible program that I’m now offering to qualified couples.

To fully understand how this works, you need to have a basic understanding of the services generally offered by a therapist so you can see how what I’m doing is a bit different than “sex therapy.”

Therapists are trained in the art of diagnosing. In fact, one of the primary skills of a psychologist is learning how to properly assess someone’s symptoms and to give a diagnosis that classifies those symptoms. Once a diagnosis is determined, the “patient” receiving services can go to any other therapist and share their diagnosis and the new therapist will have a general idea of the concerns the person has. 

With intimacy coaching, the complete and total aim is to determine what specific skill set you need in regards to growing your intimacy and then to use a laser-focused approach to help you to reach your goals. I use the Yada Method™ to do this which encompasses looking at you and your spouse from a holistic point of view. Your unique marriage and intimacy dynamics play a role here and those things cannot be easily classified by a psychological diagnosis. A couple’s sexual relationship is far too complex to reduce to a psychological diagnosis.

How is this different than my premium program?

My program, Becoming One, is based on the TOP needs that my clients typically have. There are over 9 hours of training videos involved in the modules and more than 70 “action sheets” that are completed during the program. And honestly, while this is exactly what some couples need, for others that might just feel a little overwhelming.

On the other hand, intimacy coaching packages give you everything you need AND only what you need. This means that you spend less time doing portions that are not as relevant and skip right ahead to the most important sections. 

The most unique aspect of the coaching package is that we work together to design a program that meets your needs. We’ll start this process during our initial call and your unique package will be ready for you within 48-business hours.

My theology regarding intimacy.

I come from a Christian perspective in my work with couples. This does not mean that you have to be a Christian to choose to work with me or to benefit from these services, but it does mean that I have a particular mindset when I work with couples that I’d like to share with you.

First, I love marriage. I would love to see all couples happy and fulfilled in their marriage and enjoying their relationship. I will work as hard as I possibly can to be honest with you about the process. I’ll point out areas that you need to strengthen while I encourage you and give you an honest hope for success. We will use your faith as a foundation for our work together.

Secondly, I believe that sex really is a gift from God and that marital intimacy is one of the ways he helps us learn more about His goodness, His nature, and His love for us. See, I believe that God is completely good. There are many, many Scriptures that speak to this, but one of my favorites is simply, “You are good, and what you do is good…” (Psalm 119″68a). Since I beleive that God is good, then I also have to believe that all of his Creation is good. We know that “through Him all things were made; without Him nothing was made that ha been made” (John 1:3). His good creation includes humanity, the bringing together of man and wife (Gen. 2:24), and the oneness of marital intimacy. Indeed, God and his creation (including sex) are infinitely good. 

Finally, I believe your marital intimacy can be quite fulfilling if you’re both open to putting in some work. I believe this even if you’ve never experienced your sexual relationship as a good gift. My goal is to help you feel more intimately connected and more pleased with your marital intimacy through the process of our work together.

Still not sure if intimacy coaching is right for you?

If you’re still trying to figure out if you’re ready to start the process of intimacy coaching, I’d recommend jumping on a quick phone with me to see if this process is a good fit for you.

Whatever you decide, I pray you grow in your friendship, emotional closeness, and relational intimacy with your spouse.

Every Married Christian Deserves A Fulfilling Sex Life

But these problems can really get in the way of that

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We want sex at very different frequencies.

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Sex has become just one more obligation.

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Past trauma makes sex difficult to enjoy.

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Sometimes sex is just plain painful.

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It's hard to believe that God wants good sex for us.

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Sex has never actually been good for us.

Fully Well has everything you need to start the process of growing your martial intimacy and building the relationship you’re designed for. We believe Christian couples can enjoy their intimacy and we help you do just that. 

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My marriage was saved and it’s better than it’s ever been. I don’t think we’ve ever been happier.
Anonymous Wife

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