Three Tips for Increasing Sexual Satisfaction

Three Tips for Increasing Sexual Satisfaction

Want to know some simple tips for increasing your sexual satisfaction? Figure out what your partner likes (both in and out of the bedroom), make sex a priority, and make it about more than the physical act. Tip #1 Find out what your spouse's sexual needs are! Many...

Let’s Talk Sex! Do Couples Have a Responsibility for Singles?

Let’s Talk Sex! Do Couples Have a Responsibility for Singles?

Have you ever heard a really good sermon about sex? I mean the kind that makes you actually shout, “hallelujah,” “amen,” “praise Him all ye saints!” or whatever it is that you yell when the preacher does a particularly great job proclaiming the truth. I remember...

Three Things You’d Learn If You Went to a Sex Therapist

Three Things You’d Learn If You Went to a Sex Therapist

Let me start by saying I'm speaking from a Christian world-view. I can only speculate what you might learn if you just pick a random sex therapist to talk to. What I’m sharing here is what you would learn if you went to a Christian sex therapist. So, if you’ve...

The Discomfort of Intimacy

The Discomfort of Intimacy

I used to know this girl that had experienced some pretty bad relationships and some sexual abuse in her past. She worked hard to “work through” all of that. She was in therapy for a couple of years, journaled pretty consistently, spent more hours in prayer than could...

Help for The Wife With a High Sex Drive

Help for The Wife With a High Sex Drive

Most people really believe that the man has the higher sex drive in the marriage. Actually though, somewhere between 1/3 and 1/2 of marriages have a wife with a higher sex drive. (As an aside, don't you love when statistics have such a large range? Obviously, we're...

I Wasn’t Pretty on my Wedding Day

I Wasn’t Pretty on my Wedding Day

Vulnerability is defined as "being open for injury." It doesn't mean that injury must occur, but simply that you are not trying to protect yourself from being hurt. If someone had told me, "you're going to feel vulnerable in marriage,"  I wouldn't have believed it....